This is the kind of resilience I want to cultivate for myself: In every moment, to be in self-balance. To generate options and then have the energy to move to the next moment, via those options.
Some days this comes naturally. Other days, I can not find my balance.
The days that I am in balance: I am more congruent in every moment. I am more aware of what the moment needs and I know how to meet those needs.
The days I am not: I blame everyone around me, tragically trying to regain balance that way.
To get back into balanced resilience requires that I only ever do my tasks, and joyfully support others in their task.