This is how I know I live a good life:
Every night, I go to bed and I sleep soundly. In the morning, I get up and I get to choose where I have coffee. During the day, I have meaningful interactions.
That is about it.
For that to be true, many, many other things need to be true. Such as:
Calmness in my being that allows me to sleep well.
The kind of autonomy and freedom that lets me go to my favourite coffee shops.
Opportunities during the day to have those interactions.
When I go a few days without that statement being true, I know there is something I need to change.