No second best Twinkie

"There is no second best Twinkie - vanilla or nothing."

For some things, there are no second bests. There is only the thing, and the whole of the thing.

From the outside, it may appear that there is a sliding scale of choices. But for the people who care, those choices are false.

When you cannot have the whole of the thing: It is a kindness to yourself, to know that choosing nothing is healthier and a fully valid choice.