Pity as a power play

Pity is subtle.

To feel sorrow and sadness for another is a natural, healthy, and community-building experience.
To feel that, and then twist it into an “ah shame, look at that other!” turns it into a power play.

That moment of relief that you are not them. A respite from your reality and facing you.

That moment, is pity-as-power: The hand outstretched, to create distance.

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