Energy can either pool deeply and stagnate, becoming putrid and stale.
Or it can flow, and find where it wants to go.
Surrounded by a hard ring of no-ing, it will stay where it is.
The "No" will always be present. The opportunity is to use that "No", to find your "Yes".
Instead of the "No" being a damning wall: Instead, let ever "No" become a riverbank. Let the "No" become the gentle shaping of the direction for the flow.
It is when you allow the no-ing to be your knowing when you will find your "Yes", and that river of energy will know where to go.