There is a difference between what happens, and what I experience.
I choose everything I experience. The sense-making and the responding is all my choice. It stays my responsibility.
Responsibility: The ability to respond.
I choose all the drama that I am a part of. All of it. That is a choice I actively make. Not always consciously but always actively.
All the drama I experience: It is all within my ability to respond and to choose, again.